Getting Out Of The Dog House In 5 Steps
Men and women have been essentially different from the day that God created them. They think differently, they act differently, they look differently; bottom line, they’re different. These differences only become a problem when the man finds a way to upset the woman. Don’t worry about why this happens, just know that it has happened, it does happen, and will always be happening. So as a man, you are going to need a few tricks up your sleeve to get yourself out of the dog house. The following are a list of ideas that you can add to your collection of lifesavers.
1. Send Her a Floral Arrangement. Flowers are a great place to begin. Why? Well because they are beautiful and special and area luxury purchase. But the most important thing about flowers is that they be delivered to her someplace where lots of people she knows are going to see. Work is the best place to do this. Have an arrangement sent to her job with a special note from you apologizing, and see how far that takes you.
2. Give Her Jewelry. Marilyn Monroe said it best in the movie Gentlemen Prefer Blondes: “Diamonds are a girl’s best friend”. Surprise your lady with a beautiful necklace, bracelet, ring, or pair of earrings. Don’t bother with fake if you can’t afford real though. Also, don’t expect your major purchase to end the argument. You are still going to have to talk about the underlying issue and work to resolve it.
3. Cater to Her For A Day. Women spend a lot of time catering to the men in their lives so spend a day catering to your lady. Don’t pay for her to go to the spa. Instead, create a spa atmosphere for her right at home, and spend an entire day being her personal masseuse, manicurist, pedicurist, facial specialist, and more. Cook a special meal for her, light candles in the bathroom and draw a nice bath. Let her know that her wish is your command and that you will be more than happy to do anything she asks you to.
4. Surprise Her With A Trip. Women love surprises and this is one she is sure to never forget. Plan a weekend getaway for you and your honey. Make sure that you have her clear a weekend in advance to make sure that she has nothing else to do. Get her mother, sister or best friend to pack her bags for her and pick her up after work on a Friday afternoon. Drive to the airport and she will be so surprised. But don’t tell her where you’re going until she sees it for herself at the terminal gate. She will not only be more open and receptive to what you have to say, but she will be very happy too.
5. Give Her Something She’s Always Wanted. Women often talk about things that they want but have never gotten. If you’re lady has ever done this, then it’s your job to make her dream come true. Bottom line, get back into your woman’s heart and you will have the tools you need to not only resolve your issues, but to get out of the dog house too!
Sheila Dollarsby and her husband do their fair share of arguing. When he is really sorry though he will usually order an arrangement of flowers from 1800 Flowers. He does not use the flowers from 1800 Flowers as a way to solve problems, but simply as a way to apologize and open the door to healthy communication and conflict resolution.