Pam Ponders

Helen from Ohio asked me about forgiving her Ex so she could get past the pain in her life. Helen really desires to attract a love that will not only last a long time, but one that will also grow in intimacy. Many people understand that question. They can relate to the pain they’re holding on to from a past failed marriage. Relationship coaching for your marriage, whether it’s past or present can help. A few love coaching sessions specific to your marriage troubles can be wonderfully enlightening.

Before you read any further, you need to give yourself a hand for actually WANTING to forgive your ex. That is big. If you will set your intention to give away a small piece every day, within a very small amount of time you’ll see your energy release and lighten. It’s necessary to release even for those who don’t think there’s any more left to release. Forgiveness is a lifelong commitment and one that releases YOU the most. Another good exercise is to choose some things that you liked about your former love. They don’t have to be related to the romance. Perhaps you liked the way he did the home repairs. Or you liked what a good group of budd?ies he has. Maybe you enjoyed his smile. It can be anything. The object is to start to look for qualities that you enjoyed. You do this for no other reason than to shift your energy about him. You lighten up your intentions.

When you let go of previous guilt you create space. Space to receive more of what’s desired. And for all of us, what’s wanted is to receive more of what you want. I coach all about letting go, clearing out and making space both physically and energetically in my FREE Video The #1 Secret to Finding and Keeping the Love of Your Dreams.

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