Pam Ponders

You are no doubt here because of one single thing going round in your head, get my wife back – get my wife back – get my wife back – I’m sure I don’t need to spell it out.

I certainly get the picture as I too was dumped from a great height. That was the only thought going through my mind for weeks and weeks.

What you need first and foremost is a solid plan. You can get the info from the net, there’s loads of people who have gotten their partners back and have wrote their methods down.

It isn’t easy, not by a long way but it’s definitely possible to get your ex back with some effort on your part.

If you started gathering info now, how long do you think it would be before you figured you had a good plan? Possibly never as you just don’t know what is good and what is bull.

This is where other people’s experiences work for us. We all work on the same emotional levels so a method that is proven successful for thousands of others will no doubt work for us.

I was very sceptical of any book or course working like this but I was quite wrong. It worked very well for me.

I can’t claim that one psychological trick worked to get her back but it put into motion a chain of events. A chain that ended with us back as a couple.

The trick I started with was one where I got my wife to actually phone me and initiate the conversation, without actually asking. I used the power of curiosity.

Curiosity is a huge factor in our daily lives. You only got to look at rubber-neckers gawping at an accident on the street. Curiosity drives us all.

When I phoned my ex I left a message seeded with a hook that would make her curious. As expected she was on the phone to me in less than 24 hours.

Getting back together after this was pretty easy. My wife was doing the chasing, not me. I started it with the curiosity phone call but then she carried it on.

I’d put money on it that 99% of people would respond in the same way to a message like that.

I had to capitalise on the fact she’d called me and this is where the rest of my plan came into play. Like I said earlier it isn’t my plan, I didn’t make it up, I bought it in a downloadable package for less than the cost of our last date before the split.

I can say hand on heart that it was worth every penny I spent. If I had known it would work this good I’d have coughed up many times the forty bucks it cost me.

I don’t think it’s ethical to re-print other peoples work so I can’t show you what I did.

I think if someone has taken the time to put their (successful) methods down on paper and packaged it up in an easy to follow plan, then the very least they deserve is the chance to sell their ideas to you.

I can point you in the same direction that I took. When I had a burning need to get my wife back these methods did it for me. I can’t see why it wouldn’t work for you.

Having said all the above your wife isn’t coming back without your help. Make the first move but like me make her think it was her who made the first move. It’s all powerful stuff.