Pam Ponders

Have you and your spouse become that couple that you promised yourself you would never become before you got married?

The couple we’re talking about is something you’re familiar with. The couple that always seems to be bickering. The one where both spouses are always frustrated.

The kind where you know in your heart that at least one — and probably both — are cheating.

Unfortunately, this type of relationship describes the majority of couples out there. More Christian marriages fail today than succeed.

It’s obvious that whatever we’ve been doing up to now hasn’t been working.

So what’s wrong?

What haven’t all the sermons, counselors, books, programs, courses and who knows what else — all of which are supposed to help you have a successful marriage — worked?

In a second, when we reveal the answer to that question, you’re going to see why the couples who have finally had their eyes opened to the simple truth that forms the foundation of outrageously happy Christian marriages, your own relationship will be completely transformed.

But let’s not get ahead of ourselves. Yes, we’re going to reveal where you can find a complete and free resource for turning your marriage around no matter how bad it is, but first let’s talk about this for a minute.

The simple truth of the matter is this…

Traditional Christian marriage counseling just doesn’t work.

And you know what’s even worse? Traditional counseling is probably going to make your marriage even more likely to fail.

We understand that it won’t be pleasant for a lot of you to hear that. It’s more than likely that you’ve tried things like the “wife should submit to the husband” system, or other traditional advice. Maybe you’ve even given a shot to the “husband is servant leader plan.”

And still, it’s not working.

We were rushing headlong towards divorce 14 years ago. And although we followed all of the traditional advice, we were still headed down the slippery road to a failed marriage and ultimately divorce.

We never could have saved our marriage and become the happy couple we are now without learning the truth.

The problem is one of misinterpretation — the advice that you’ve probably heard up until doesn’t apply to Christian couples today. Most Christian marriage counselors teach strategies that just aren’t right.

We’re not trying to imply that these coaches are knowingly giving bad advice. Most of them probably mean well in the end.

But the problem is that they’re operating from faulty assumptions.

So, now we should talk about what exactly these dangerous assumptions actually are, and how you can avoid making them.

The first thing you must do now is head over to our site where we show you exactly why traditional Christian marriage counseling doesn’t work.

You’ll be able to download an entire guide for turning your marriage around starting today — it includes video, audio and print tools that are guaranteed to get results. Oh, and it’s free.

We’ve also put together this article that discusses Christian marriage counseling and some more effective alternatives.

We both look forward to seeing you there.